Passive Men & Wild Women
The Epidemic of the Age.
by Lien of Oz
When a man struggles, gives up, then fails to take an active role as spiritual leader and head of his home corporation; when he opts out of being involved in the lives of his children; when his time at work, just to put bread on the table, becomes an excuse (and not a reason) for depriving his family of quality attentive time, then the pressures build and family relationships fracture.
Often without realising it father's inactivity becomes his purposeful choice. He opts from responsibility, from direct participation and family involvement. Then as he sits still long enough this pressure of passive inactivity finally catapults his wife into a frenzy of activity and she rises up to do the job he has vacated. The job that he is supposed to handle. Then it is she who suffers from exhaustion, the children riot and father abandons ship altogether. A generation of rebels and rejects are thus launched on the chaotic worldly sea.
Men it may be a hard pill to swallow but passivity and laziness are learned activities.
Many a wife and mother take over from an irresponsible father who fails to take leadership in the home. This is the kind of man who fails to show love or to draw respect and appreciation from his wife. This same woman probably was abused by her dad and now can't find the love she craves for. This makes for a situation of confusion and intimidation. She never saw love exhibited from her father's hand and now unresolved anger enshrouds her cry for care, and begins to destroy her relationship with her children. Again and again the cycle of sin is traceable back to a messed up godless father.
Dysfunctional families are the product of dysfunctional husbands and fathers. Low self esteem in children leads to destructive behaviour.
The Power of Life and Death Lies Within a Man's [ A Father's] Reach.
Without a man to impregnate a woman the issue of abortion would hardly even exist. Then even for those who follow the preferred option , we still find that 25% of all first births in Australia are born to unmarried women. The fundamental choice in this issue belongs to men. Few women can ever force themselves upon a man against his will. And in today's society who would believe him. It is a man's choice to plant his seed and leave her holding the baby.
Who is responsible for teenage pregnancy? Teenage sons of fathers who failed to teach their sons and fathers who have failed to love their daughters.
Men then step in and profit from the abortion clinic.
Men must shoulder the blame:
95% of all murders are attributed to men.
Of those incarcerated in gaol men out-number women over 9 to 1.
8 out of every 10 women convicted for drug related or violent crime were victims of child abuse of some kind.
90% of all child abuse due to men.
90% of all drunk drivers are men.
75% of all traffic accidents involve men.
Alcohol and drug abuse is sponsored by men.
Who promotes, profits and purchases pornography? Men!
Who are the promoters and clients of prostitution? Men!
In a survey of 7000 strippers & young women in topless bars over 90% had abusive fathers.
70% of young women involved in pre-marital sex are from fatherless homes.
The greatest majority of young women with eating disorders, anorexia novosa and bulimia , 9 out of every 10, had very poor father relationship or come from fatherless homes.
One common factor in the great majority of suicides is loneliness derived mainly from the absence of any close relationship with parents, especially fathers.
Who marries these kinds of [rogue] men in the first place? Women whose fathers were just the same!
Women who are trapped as they see themselves so often as rescuers, wanting to save the image of a father they were so powerless to save as a child.
Women who are attracted to disaffectioned men because they hope to reform them.
Women who seek out weak men in the hope of turning them into responsible fathers, only to see life's tormenting cycle capture them once again.
Female Puppets of a deceiving foe.
The sins of the fathers are visited again and again to the third and unto the fourth generation.
God has given directions to men and calls them accountable. He has opened the door of His heart both to show, and enable every man , just how to commit his way before a Heavenly Dad. Ask and it shall be given you, seek and find.
Some one has said that the reason Moses wandered in the wilderness for 40 years was because he failed to ask for directions.